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Allow Me to Introduce You

I'd love to introduce you to someone.

Her name is Grace. She is a woman working outside the home who embodies a deep commitment to following Jesus and nurturing a vibrant relationship with Him. 

She exudes warmth and compassion, with a genuine concern for the well-being of others. Her heart is big, filled with a passion for serving her community and making a positive impact in the lives of those around her.  

(Too long; can't read? Scroll to the end to see what I created to support Grace and you.)

I know Grace quite well. I want to share some specifics about her so you'll see why I want the two of you to know each other better.

Grace's Characteristics:

1. Faith-Centered: Her faith is central to her identity and guides her decision-making process. She seeks to grow spiritually, constantly deepening her understanding of God's word and purpose for her life. 

2. Generous: She believes in the power of generosity, not just with her resources but also with her time, skills, and encouragement towards others. 

3. Leader: With a natural inclination for leadership, Grace aspires to take on roles of influence and make meaningful contributions in her workplace, community, church, and beyond. 

4. Authentic: She values authenticity and strives to live a life aligned with her core beliefs and values, avoiding the trap of people-pleasing and embracing her true self. 

5. Relationship-Oriented: Building and nurturing relationships is a priority for Grace. She cherishes deep connections with family, friends, colleagues, and other Christians, fostering a sense of belonging and support. 

6. Personal Growth-Driven: Committed to continuous personal growth and development, she actively seeks opportunities to learn, improve, and expand her skills and knowledge. 

7. Committed to Self-Care: Recognizing the importance of self-care, Grace prioritizes her physical, mental, and emotional well-being, understanding this directly enables her to thrive and serve others effectively.  

Grace's Pain Points in Life: 

1. Fear of Judgment: She grapples with the fear of being judged by others, which at times hinders her from fully embracing her potential and taking bold steps towards her goals. 

2. Lack of Confidence: Despite her capabilities and accomplishments, Grace struggles with self-doubt and a lack of confidence, particularly in challenging or unfamiliar situations. 

3. Purpose Clarity: Grace lacks a plan for her life; she seeks clarity and direction regarding her life's purpose, desiring a sense of fulfillment and significance in her endeavors, but she loses motivation easily. 

4. People-Pleasing Tendencies: She often finds herself prioritizing others' needs and expectations over her own, leading to challenges in setting and maintaining healthy boundaries. 

5. Inconsistent Boundaries: Balancing her commitments and responsibilities can be challenging, as she navigates between work, family, ministry, and personal pursuits without clear boundaries. Grace has a hard time allowing silence in conversations and saying no. She will say no on occasion but backs down due to feeling guilty.

6. Poor Self-Care: Sometimes, in her dedication to serving others, Grace neglects her own self-care needs, impacting her overall well-being and effectiveness.  

Grace's Dreams & Aspirations:

1. Physical Health: She desires to prioritize her physical health, aiming to be strong, mobile, and active and to cultivate habits that promote overall well-being. 

2. Career Advancement: Grace aspires to achieve professional growth, including getting a promotion at work, owning her own business, or maybe attaining a leadership role as a CEO or executive. 

3. Calm Life: She seeks to reduce stress as a mother, nurturing a healthy and strong marriage, and finding freedom and fulfillment in her daily schedule. 

4. Spiritual Growth: Growing closer to God and deepening her spiritual journey are essential aspirations for her, seeking greater intimacy and understanding of her faith. 

5. Financial Freedom: Achieving financial freedom is a goal, allowing her the flexibility to make choices aligned with her values and aspirations. Grace defines financial freedom as being empowered to understand her finances and to have an increased freedom to choose how she spends her time, even if she works for a living.

6. Confidence and Decisiveness: Building confidence and decisiveness are crucial for Grace, empowering her to take bold steps and make impactful decisions. 

7. Generosity and Accountability: She desires to be generous with her time and resources, while also seeking accountability that supports her growth and helps her reach her goals. 


Grace's journey is one of resilience, growth, and empowerment; navigating challenges with grace and determination while embracing opportunities for personal and spiritual fulfillment.

Where do you see similarities between Grace's characteristics, pain points, dreams and...YOU?

I ask you this question, because Grace is a distinct client profile I've created after many hours spent coaching Christian working women. I see a lot of Grace in the women who are best served by my coaching and resources.

If you see yourself in Grace's description, I have exciting news for you! 

I'm in the final stages of creating a distinct course for women just like you to become empowered and supported to live to their fullest potential.