Learning from Toddler Moments: The Power of Slowing Down

In 2004, when my son was about 18 months old, we were having a small group dinner in our home. 

There were a lot of kids there, and we were celebrating someone’s birthday. It was past my toddler son’s bedtime, and he was exhausted. Our little guy heard someone yell from the kitchen, “the cake is ready!”

Before he could think about it, my cherub-faced son dashed towards the kitchen because he wanted a piece of that chocolate goodness.

I saw my son take off. In his mad dash to the kitchen, he lost his footing. His forehead landed smack dab on the corner of a tile step that led into our playroom.

I froze and watched in shock and horror as he laid there in silence before he began to scream. There was blood everywhere. He had cut his forehead between his eyebrows so deeply that we could see bone. I still feel a little bit sick to this day when I think of the scene.

It makes sense a toddler would want cake, right?

Sometimes you and I - fully grown adults - behave this way.

We get an idea.

We want to help someone.

We see a window of opportunity and make a run for it.

We close our eyes and make a mad dash for the goal.

It's heartbreaking to think how an adult's fast-paced living can lead to anything from bankruptcy to addiction to burnout.

I wonder if God might be saying to us all:

Slow down, darlin'.

I’ve learned a thing or two about slowing down,  but I still get surprised by this life principle from time to time.  

I felt myself moving a little too quickly a couple of months back. I knew if I didn't slow down, I'd lose my footing in life.

I scheduled a day alone at home.

I sat in stillness, took some deep breaths, and asked God what He might say to me if only I'd focus on Him.

As I sat, emotions flooded in.

Ideas came to mind.

I felt an urge to journal about and process some lingering relationship strains.

The Holy Spirit brought to mind some people to reach out to and show my gratitude.

The Holy Spirit brought to mind some people to reach out to and ask for help.

My load was lightened significantly just by being still and listening for God's still, small voice.

When you slow down, you are better able to make the journey. 

Before you trip yourself up, could you take a little pause today? 

Ask God what He wants to tell you.

Slow down and trust that you'll get there without rushing.

The thing you're pursuing is worth pursuing without hustle.